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A Different Perspective on Mother’s Day

It is almost Mother’s Day.  As a mom, I so enjoy the adorable handmade cards and the thoughtful presents my children give me each May.  But for some moms, Mother’s Day goes unrecognized.  There are no cards, presents, or hugs.  Often, there is not even acknowledgment.  Although we do not hear about it very often, and never anticipate its occurrence, babies still die, every day.

I do not talk about my work with Now I Lay Me Down To Sleep very often, although I probably should.  So now I am.  The following is taken right from the NILMDTS website:

“Pregnancy and birth are miraculous journeys. This amazing time of life is full of mystery, anticipation, joy, hope, and wonder. Feeling the powerful energy of birth and new life, watching as a new family is born unto each other. These things humble and amaze. These are the things that we celebrate when a baby is born.

But there is another aspect of pregnancy and birth. There is an unexpected place in this journey where some families may find themselves. When a baby dies, a world is turned upside down. There is confusion, sadness, fear, and uncertainty that cannot be explained. There is sorrow where there should have been joy. During this time, it might be impossible for families to know what they might need in order to heal in the future.

This is the place where the Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep Foundation gently provides a helping hand and a healing heart. For families overcome by grief and pain, the idea of photographing their baby may not immediately occur to them. Offering gentle and beautiful photography services in a compassionate and sensitive manner is the heart of this organization. The soft, gentle heirloom photographs of these beautiful babies are an important part of the healing process. They allow families to honor and cherish their babies, and share the spirits of their lives.

The Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep Foundation (NILMDTS) administers a network of almost 7,000 volunteer photographers in the United States and twenty-five countries. At a family’s request, a NILMDTS Affiliated Photographer will come to your hospital or hospice location and conduct a sensitive and private portrait session. The portraits are then professionally retouched and presented to the families on an archival DVD or CD that can be used to print portraits of their cherished baby.

Our entire network of affiliated photographers graciously donate their time and talents to our families and we are proud to be able to offer our services at no cost. Your Donations are greatly needed and greatly appreciated.”

Please consider supporting the mission of NILMDTS this Mother’s Day.  To learn more about this wonderful organization, or to volunteer your talents if you are a photographer, visit their website at

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